Representation matters, especially when it comes to underrepresented identities like asexuality. As International Asexuality Day was celebrated on April 6, it's an opportune moment to reflect on how far media representation has come and the significant gaps that still exist. Over the years, television and film have made strides in portraying asexual characters, but much work remains to ensure these depictions are both accurate and diverse.

Understanding asexuality as a spectrum is crucial to appreciating its complexity. It encompasses various identities, such as demisexual and graysexual, each with unique experiences. Unfortunately, misconceptions abound, often leading to harmful stereotypes. For instance, some believe that asexual individuals cannot feel romantic attraction or dismiss asexuality altogether as a legitimate orientation. These misunderstandings have been perpetuated by early portrayals in media, like a problematic skit from "The Late Late Show" in 2003, which mocked the lack of sexual attraction rather than educating viewers. In contrast, shows like New Zealand’s "Shortland Street" offered a more nuanced depiction, allowing characters to explore their sexuality authentically while also developing them beyond their orientation.

Recent years have seen progress, with series like "BoJack Horseman," "Heartbreak High," and "Heartstopper" introducing characters who provide genuine insights into asexual experiences. Such portrayals not only educate audiences but also validate the experiences of those within the asexual community. However, challenges persist. The number of authentic asexual characters remains alarmingly low, and even fewer appear in films. Moreover, the majority of these characters are cisgender white men, failing to represent the true diversity of the asexual community. By embracing intersectionality—acknowledging the multifaceted identities that define us—we can create richer, more inclusive narratives. Media should strive to depict asexual individuals as whole people, reflecting the varied backgrounds and experiences that make up real lives. Only then can we truly celebrate and normalize this often-overlooked identity.

Inclusion fosters understanding and strengthens communities. When media accurately portrays asexual individuals, it dismantles barriers and promotes acceptance. By championing diverse and authentic stories, we move closer to a world where everyone feels seen and valued. Let us continue advocating for better representation, ensuring that all voices are heard and respected.