Uncover the Hidden Meanings behind a Christmas Gift Exchange

The Gift Exchange Details

RoseMarie Terenzio, who served as JFK Jr.'s personal assistant and was a close friend to both him and Carolyn, recalls this memorable event. On that day, Carolyn's act of giving the Hermès blanket showed her thoughtfulness and perhaps a desire to bridge the gap with her aunt. It was a gesture that carried a certain weight and elegance.

However, the return gift from Lee Radziwill was a box of plastic Goody hair clips and scrunchies from Duane Reade. At first glance, it might seem like a simple drugstore item. But as Terenzio explains, this seemingly ordinary gift held a deeper meaning.

Reasons for the Gift Exchange

Terenzio reveals that there were underlying reasons for this gift exchange. John had not wanted to invite Lee to their private and top-secret wedding on Cumberland Island earlier that year. He likely knew that Lee would not be able to keep the wedding quiet and might potentially spoil the surprise.

Carolyn, on the other hand, felt strongly about including Lee. She saw it as a family matter and couldn't understand why her husband wouldn't invite his aunt. This difference in perspectives added an interesting layer to the gift exchange.

The Significance of the Gifts

When Carolyn opened the box of hair clips, she initially found it humorous. She saw it as Lee's way of expressing her emotions about not being invited to the wedding. It was a subtle yet powerful statement.

Terenzio emphasizes that Carolyn understood Lee's intentions and found it endearing. It showed a complex relationship between the two women and how they navigated through different emotions and situations. This gift exchange became a memorable part of their story.