Ryan Reynolds, at 48, is sharing insights on how he and his wife Blake Lively strive to give their kids a normal life while keeping them out of the public eye. With four children - James, 9, Inez, 8, Betty, 5, and the newly born Olin in 2023 - Reynolds is committed to providing them with an upbringing that is as ordinary as possible.

Preserving Normalcy for Their Kids Amidst Stardom

Wanting a Normal Childhood for the Kids

Reynolds emphasizes that he doesn't want to impose the differences between his and his wife's childhoods on their children. "We both grew up working class, and I remember when they were young, I'd think things like 'I never had this luxury when I was a kid.' But I realized that's not their burden to carry. They already have a strong sense of gratitude and empathy," he said. This shows his dedication to ensuring their kids have a balanced and unremarkable childhood.

He wants them to focus on the important things in life rather than being influenced by the trappings of wealth. By giving them a normal life, he believes they will develop essential qualities like empathy and understanding.

Dealing with the Differences in Childhood

Reynolds acknowledges that while his childhood was different from his kids', he is careful not to let that affect them. "When I was a kid, you just went out and came back by sundown. Now, it's a different world. But I don't want that to change them," he added. This highlights his efforts to bridge the gap between different eras and provide a stable environment for his children.

He understands that each generation has its own challenges and opportunities, and he wants his kids to grow up at their own pace, not influenced by his past. This approach shows his wisdom as a parent and his commitment to their well-being.

Balancing Work and Family

Reynolds has been open about the difficulties of being away from his family while working in the film industry. "It had been six years since the last Deadpool movie, and part of the reason is that it consumes my whole life. You can't take your eyes off it from development to post-production to marketing. It's a constant struggle," he said.

However, he is determined not to be an absentee parent. "I don't ever want to miss stuff like their competitions or sports events. It breaks my heart when I do," he added. This shows his love and dedication to his family, despite the demands of his career.

Future Family Plans

In July 2024, Reynolds joked about potentially having more children. "The more the merrier. As many as possible," he told E! News. This shows his light-hearted side and his openness to expanding their family.

While he values the time he spends with his current children, he also seems to have a sense of adventure and excitement about the possibility of adding more to their family.