Lily Allen, a renowned British singer, has opened up about a significant aspect of her life - her decision to remain sober and her marriage to David Harbour. In an interview with the Times of London, she shared her experiences and insights.

Discovering a New Chapter

Allen claimed that before meeting her husband, she had never had sex "not drunk." This revelation showcases a turning point in her life. She explained, "I don't think I'd ever had sex with anybody not drunk before I got together with him. So, that was different for sure." It was a total shift in her perspective and a conscious choice.She continued, "He had a lot of experience with it, so it's been helpful to do it with someone that's long-in-the-tooth in that game." This shows her growth and the influence her husband has had on her.

Embracing Sobriety

Allen has been sober for five years and is now an ambassador for the Forward Trust, a cause close to her heart. This shows her determination and commitment to a better life. She started working on her sobriety years before marrying Harbour, after some "rock bottom" moments following her split from ex-husband Sam Cooper.The first incident was when she discovered Cooper had moved on with someone after their marriage crumbled in 2016. She drank herself into oblivion and went to his house, screaming and waking up the kids. This was a wake-up call for her, leading her on the path to sobriety.

Realizing the Control

After another embarrassing incident where her friend commented on her need for a drink, Allen realized the hold alcohol had on her. She recalled, "I remember feeling so incensed. When they were in the bathroom, I was like, 'Why do I feel so angry at somebody insinuating that I need this drink?' And it was because I did. It really had control over me."This realization led her to take action and attend Alcoholics Anonymous meetings. She now attends them twice a week, both in person and via Zoom. Her kids also play an important role, "monitoring" her to ensure she doesn't miss a meeting. They understand the importance of her sobriety and support her in this journey.Allen's story is a powerful one, showing the impact of sobriety and the importance of making positive choices in life. It also highlights the role of loved ones in supporting one's recovery.