A 20-year-old man found himself in a difficult situation when his sister, Amanda, 28, made a comment during a family barbeque that led to a series of events. He attended the event with his 22-year-old boyfriend, Ryan. After the gathering, Amanda pulled him aside and suggested he not bring Ryan to future family gatherings, claiming their 4-year-old son, Jack, was asking questions and wasn't ready to understand. The man shared that they were simply having a normal family time, not putting on a show. But Amanda insisted it was confusing for Jack.

Man's Reaction and Family Drama

The man was initially calm but when Amanda asked him to babysit on short notice while he had plans with Ryan, he snapped. He said he couldn't babysit as he didn't want to expose Jack to his "terrifying gay lifestyle." This led to a blow-out fight where Amanda accused him of punishing Jack. Their parents got involved, with their mother taking Amanda's side and saying she was doing what was best for the child. However, their dad supported the man, emphasizing that kids aren't confused by love but by people hiding it.The argument escalated to a family group chat, with some family members siding with Amanda and others with the man. Most Reddit forum users agreed with the man, saying he wasn't in the wrong. One commenter pointed out how disappointing it was that the family was divided and advised the man to have little to no contact with his sister. The man, who hadn't spoken to his sister in days and was considering ending their relationship, was confused as his family had been supportive when he came out. Another commenter explained how easy it is to explain to a 4-year-old about different types of relationships and how the adults in the family should handle it.