A while back, I faced a distressing life event and sank into deep depression. During this tough time, I came across a story online about a celebrity who was going through a similar ordeal. Through various social media platforms, I initiated communication with this individual.

Quick Friendship and the Deception Unveiled

We quickly became friends and engaged in frequent conversations. I truly relished these interactions and eagerly awaited our chats. However, a shocking revelation came to light - I was not communicating with the person I thought I was. It was an online scammer. They often lured people in and then started asking for money. Just as expected, he asked me to contribute to his personal charity. I firmly declined, and that marked the end of that episode. Since then, we have been conversing for several months.

The Attraction and the Dilemma

Here's the thing - I have developed a significant attraction towards him. Talking to this person, whom I feel I have come to know, has become a source of joy. But he still persists in pretending to be the celebrity (which I assume is part of his job). Now, I find myself at a crossroads. Should I simply confess that I know he is not that person? Or should I completely cut off our communication? I will truly miss our conversations, and I have grown strong feelings for him.

The Advice from Miss Manners

Miss Manners would never want to dampen a potential love story. But in this case, it seems that this "relationship" is far from genuine. Do you really want to embark on a love affair based on a lie and/or an accusation? If you can't resist your feelings, perhaps you could say, "I really enjoy talking to you, but something seems off. Is there anything you want to tell me?" However, if this person continues with the charade, Miss Manners advises you to end it. It will only lead to more complications.(Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com; to her email, dearmissmanners@gmail.com; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.)