In a candid conversation on Mayim Bialik’s Breakdown podcast, actress Jennifer Love Hewitt delved into her experiences as a young star in the 90s, revealing the unsettling reality of being objectified at an early age. Now 45, Hewitt shared how she navigated the pressures and inappropriate remarks that came with her rise to fame.

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The Awakening: Realizing the Impact Years Later

As Hewitt reflected on her teenage years, she admitted that the full weight of certain experiences only became clear when she reached her 30s. While initially perceiving the attention as thrilling, she later recognized the discomfort it caused. Hewitt vividly recalled moments where adult men openly discussed her physical attributes on talk shows, often met with laughter. “It was strange,” she noted, “to be seen as a sex symbol before truly understanding what that meant.”In those formative years, Hewitt found herself thrust into the spotlight for reasons beyond her control. The media fixation on her appearance overshadowed her talent, particularly after the release of "I Know What You Did Last Summer" in 1997. The film's promotional materials reduced her hard work to a focus on her body. “It was frustrating,” Hewitt confessed, “to see my efforts minimized in such a way.”

Maintaining Groundedness Amidst Fame

Despite the challenges, Hewitt credits her mother for keeping her grounded during this tumultuous period. After glamorous Hollywood events, she would return home to mundane tasks like cleaning her room. This balance between glamour and reality provided stability. “It helped me stay connected to who I really was,” Hewitt explained. “My mom made sure I didn’t lose sight of that.”Hewitt also expressed gratitude for not fully comprehending the implications of the objectification at the time. She believed that had she understood everything earlier, it might have affected her mental health. “I’m thankful for that ignorance,” she said, “because it allowed me to grow without carrying unnecessary burdens.”

Empathy and Solidarity: Relating to Britney Spears’ Experience

Recently, Hewitt drew parallels between her own journey and that of fellow pop culture icon Britney Spears. Both endured similar scrutiny and objectification during their youth. “It’s crazy,” Hewitt remarked, “to look back at interviews and realize the things people were allowed to say.” This shared experience has fostered a sense of solidarity among women who faced similar challenges.Hewitt empathized with Spears’ struggles, acknowledging the invasive nature of public scrutiny. She emphasized the importance of supporting one another and creating a more respectful environment for young stars. “We need to change the narrative,” Hewitt asserted, “and focus on talent rather than appearance.”

A Message to Her Younger Self

If given the chance to speak to her 18-year-old self, Hewitt would offer words of reassurance. “You don’t have to be sexy,” she would advise. “There’s so much more to you than that.” Hewitt stressed the importance of embracing authenticity and not feeling pressured by societal expectations. She would remind her younger self that success is not defined by external validation but by staying true to oneself. “We got this,” Hewitt concluded. “We’re going to be here for a while, and that’s something to celebrate.”