A British woman has expressed her deep frustration on an online parenting forum after her long-term partner of 19 years continually refuses to propose. The couple, who share two children, have faced repeated discussions about marriage, with the woman feeling increasingly disheartened by his consistent excuses and reluctance. Her recent post on a popular U.K. parenting website has sparked debate among readers, many of whom question the health of their relationship and whether marriage would truly bring the desired change.

The woman revealed that she has repeatedly asked her partner to consider marrying her over the years, but he consistently deflects with reasons such as financial concerns or uncertainty about the future. Despite her willingness to plan a modest wedding, he remains hesitant, citing worries about potential marital discord. The couple's history includes numerous breakups in the early years, but they have maintained stability since having children. However, moments of tension still arise, often due to what she perceives as a lack of respect from him.

The situation escalated when her partner's 65-year-old mother recently became engaged. While the woman expressed genuine happiness for her, her partner’s flippant remark that she might have to wait until she is also 65 for a proposal left her feeling deeply hurt. She acknowledged that while he is not an ideal partner, he is devoted to their children, which complicates her feelings about leaving the relationship.

Despite her partner’s shortcomings, the woman finds herself torn between her desire for commitment and the reality of their current dynamic. Many forum users responded critically, questioning why she would want to marry someone who seems unwilling to fully commit. They advised her to prioritize her own well-being and reconsider the future of the relationship rather than pursuing a marriage that may not lead to the happiness she seeks.