Teddi Mellencamp is currently addressing her stance with estranged husband Edwin Arroyave following her filing for divorce last month. This significant life event has led her to share her experiences and perspectives on marriage, divorce, and parenting.

"Discovering the Path Through Divorce with Teddi Mellencamp"

Divorce and Its Complexities

On the first episode of her new podcast "Diamonds in the Rough" with former Real Housewives of Beverly Hills costar Erika Girardi, Mellencamp, 43, opened up about her marriage and divorce. Despite the separation and divorce after 13 years of marriage, she firmly believes that marrying Edwin and having children together is one of the best things she has ever done. Their three children, Slate, 12, Cruz, 10, and Dove, 4, are aware of the situation and are adjusting to the changes.During the podcast, Mellencamp explained that she and Edwin, 47, alternate leaving the house when the other one comes in and sleeps. She stays at Kyle Richards' home when Edwin is with the children. However, she emphasized that there is no ill will between them and they can be together for sporting events. She also mentioned that she doesn't want to place blame and is going through the highs and lows of the divorce process.

Lessons from Her Parents' Divorce

Mellencamp reflected on how her parents', John Mellencamp and Victoria Granucci's, divorce has influenced her approach to her own split. She described the mudslinging and the focus on pleasing others during her parents' divorce. Even 35 years later, she still asks her parents not to call her by the other person's name. She believes that children are smart and aware of their parents' moods, so she doesn't want to emphasize her own emotions during the divorce.

The Importance of Putting Children First

On Nov. 2, Mellencamp announced her separation in an Instagram post and emphasized the importance of putting their children first. She wrote that her priority is her children and ensuring their privacy and well-being during this new chapter. She also stated that making a public statement was difficult but necessary to protect her family from speculation and rumors.A week after her filing, Edwin responded to her petition and requested joint custody and blocked her ability to receive spousal support while awarding him the same. Despite the split, they planned to spend Thanksgiving together as a family.Throughout this process, Mellencamp is learning and growing, and she is determined to handle the divorce in a way that is best for her and her children. She is navigating the highs and lows with grace and determination, showing that even in the face of difficult circumstances, one can find strength and hope.