Nelly and Ashanti have long been known for their ability to create memorable moments. On a Sunday in December 2024, they stepped out at the Four Seasons Hotel in St. Louis, Missouri, for Nelly's annual Black and White Charity Ball. This event was a celebration of their lives and a way to give back to the community.

Love and Playfulness on Stage

During the evening, Ashanti, 44, joined Nelly, 50, onstage to perform her 2002 hit song "What's Luv." Their chemistry was palpable as they sang together and changed the lyrics to "we made a baby, baby, baby, baby, baby." Nelly's words, "Make some noise for my God damn beautiful wife," showed the depth of their love.The couple's son, Kareem Kenkaide Haynes, was a source of joy for them. A source told PEOPLE that the new parents were playful and loving, and their son "lights up when he is around his daddy." This moment on stage was a testament to their family bond.

Generosity in Action

Throughout the evening, Nelly raised money for Make-A-Wish. He made a 14-year-old's wish come true by gifting him a brand-new home theater system and granted a Harris-Stowe State University sophomore a full-ride scholarship. His efforts to give back were truly inspiring.Nelly was also granted a key to the city with the St. Lunatics. In response to this honor, he teased a festival in partnership with Metro Boomin happening in 2025. This shows his influence and commitment to the community.

Guests and Celebrations

More guests at the ball included Ne-Yo, Metro Boomin, Jermaine Dupri, Bow Wow, Jordan Binnington, Oli Marmol, Masyn Winn, J-Kwon, Murphy Lee, Kyjuan, City, Slo’Down, Blanco Brown, Isaac Keys, Polow Da Don, Richard Fortus, Sydney Thomas, Connor Perry, Jim Edmonds, Orlando Pace and more. The event was a gathering of friends and family, celebrating the couple's new chapter.In November, the couple caught up with PEOPLE on their lives as new parents. Ashanti said of having KK in their lives, "It's amazing. He's a blessing. He's an angel. My life is amazing right now. I'm super blessed, so happy. I'm insanely in love with him." She also reflected on how his personality was flourishing and mentioned his "daddy's temper."

Engagement and Marriage

The Grammy Award winners first announced they were expecting their first child together in an Instagram video shared in April. Ashanti also shared the news with Essence, revealing not only that she was pregnant but that she and Nelly were engaged. "This new year of my life is such a blessing full of love, hope and anticipation," she told the outlet.The pair tied the knot on Dec. 27, 2023, according to documents obtained by PEOPLE in June. Their journey as a couple and as parents was filled with love, joy, and generosity.